Hello there, work-from-home mommas! If your days are filled with Zoom meetings, cooking, and picking up the kids from school, you are not alone. I have been doing just that for months now, and I don’t know how I managed to somehow keep it all together.
Life has been so busy lately. I used to have all the time to work and engage in other activities like blogging, which has been a way for me to destress for years. Now, however, I can’t seem to find the energy to do these.
My last blog was two years ago! When I said I’m going to write from time to time, I was just thinking every other month or so. But yes, things change, and life…sort of happens.
I still work as a freelance writer and I still work from home. I have been doing so for the past 10 years. Things have been quite different lately because I now have two school-aged kids to attend to. Think of preparing food in the morning, washing uniforms, and doing homework. I used to think it would be easy when they go to school because I have extra time, but believe me, it is equally difficult.
Back then, I would keep them busy with toys while I worked on my laptop. When they take a nap in the afternoon, I had time to clean and prepare for dinner while on a Zoom audio call. Now that they go to school, there is indeed a lot of “extra work.”
See, we don’t have a helper. My husband sends the kids to school in the morning while I stay at home to do household errands and freelance work. Come lunchtime, I have to rush to school to pick them up (they have different schedules, and I have to be with my kindergarten first) and wait for the husband (who thankfully has his office located near the school) so we can all go home together. So far, I still keep everything under control, but the guilt and struggle are always creeping in.
Guilt is often the uninvited guest in the work-from-home mom’s daily life. Whether you’re still winning the “time management” game, that nagging feeling of not doing enough on either front can be overwhelming. But I realized that there is no such thing as a perfectly balanced day, no matter how organized you think you are! Some days the laundry wins; other days, it’s all about meeting article deadlines.
A lot of work-from-home mommies know that while there is a solid line between professional and personal realms, the mixup can be inevitable. You just have to deal with it. With the inflation and the high cost of living expenses, millennial mommies would definitely choose to work too (for extra household income or yes, for online shopping! lol).
Let us set realistic expectations for what we can and cannot do. Let us start celebrating small victories, even if it’s just completing and submitting a deadline between snack breaks, and be okay with it.
Hey, I was able to write a short blog today. Small victory. Let’s celebrate!